YOU’RE INTUITIVE – DEAL WITH YOUR SHIT!
Yeah, I get it. You’re a “sensitive” intuitive, I know, I am one, too!
If you are constantly picking up on a lot of the feelings and energy of the people around you, sometimes you can’t even tell what are your feelings and what feelings belong to others.
You feel it! You feel the anger of the man sitting at the table next to you in a restaurant, you feel the hopelessness of the woman sitting across from him, you feel the darkness in the heart of the person who walked past you in the store, people wonder how you can know so much about them, you feel your partner’s “grumpiness” and you feel yourself slowly shutting down over time whenever you are around them
THE WORLD SEEMS LIKE A MINEFIELD OF EMOTIONS SOMETIMES.
“Something is wrong. I can feel it,” you say to yourself.
People have told you your whole life that you are crazy, but even then, you could feel the angst that they were going through when they were telling you that you were crazy, so something “didn’t feel right.”
You’ve learned to trust your “gut.” You know something is wrong, you THINK you know what it is, and you start to feel a little edgy.
You are pretty certain that you are not crazy, and you have to find out what is really going on! If it is not clear, transparent ( Lawdy, transparency is so important ), and in alignment, then it feels muddy, murky, and you feel it in your soul.
So here’s the deal:
IF YOU RE NOT TOTALLY AT PEACE WITH EVERYTHING YOU SENSE GOING ON AROUND YOU, YOU NEED TO DEAL WITH YOUR SHIT!
Let me tell you something else about you, when your buttons get pushed, your emotions kick into hyper-drive – you get sensitive (more than normal), you need to be reassured, you feel like crying or shutting down or screaming, maybe you start to feel small – maybe you start you feel angry, you CRAVE reassurance, and everything starts to hurt inside.
Now it’s time.
It’s time to TAMFB!
TAKE A MOTHER FUCKING BREATH!
When things around you are out of alignment, when they are not clear, your only job is to GET BACK INTO ALIGNMENT YOURSELF! Everything else can wait. Everything else MUST wait.
If you aren’t in a clear place yourself, then you are INCAPABLE of responding effectively to whatever you sense going on around you – you will come off as abrasive, accusatory, needy, or like you are causing some kind of drama – AND YOU WILL MAKE YOURSELF CRAZY!
You know something is wrong! Make peace with the problem first!
Don’t talk about the other’s actions or feelings – SPEAK FROM A PLACE OF COMPASSION.
Don’t worry about what possibilities lay ahead for the future – GET INTO A PLACE OF ACCEPTANCE IN THE PRESENT.
Don’t expect another to ease your fear and anxiety – GET TO A GOOD FEELING, EXPANSIVE, EMPOWERED PLACE BEFORE YOU EVEN TALK TO THEM!
Don’t assume you know what’s actually happening – HONOR THAT YOUR FEELINGS ARE FEELINGS, NOT FACTS, AND SPEAK THEM ACCORDINGLY.
Don’t speak as if anyone has created these feelings in you – ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR FEELINGS.
Don’t blame people for being fucked up – LEARN TO SET AND CONSISTENTLY ENFORE BOUNDARIES WITH PEOPLE.
Don’t act like your space is being invaded by other’s energy – YOU’RE THE FUCKING INTUITIVE! IF YOU ARE GONG TO PICK UP ON WHAT IS GOING ON WITH OTHERS, MAKE ROOM FOR IT!
Don’t feel like these feelings are a burden – YOU AGREED TO BE THIS FUCKING INTUITIVE BEFORE YOU CAME INTO THIS LIFETIME.
Part of that agreement was to be a beacon of light, to be a source of healing, to emanate love in the world, and most of all to keep your Heart open so you can be the wonderful, amazing, loving, BIG-HEARTED person you were born to be.
BRIGHT LIGHTS CAST DARK SHADOWS!
Love is the brightest light in the Universe and not only will any un-healed hurts you have get stirred up in relationships, but YOU will be the bright light that shines bright enough to stir up other people’s shit.
Since you already agreed to be a bright fucking light in the world, (even though you don’t often feel like it), it’s time to do the next piece of work and grow even bigger, stronger, more compassionate, more accepting, and be more of an agent of healing in the world than you ever thought possible!
Blessings be to you in the world – today and all days.
TAMFB!