I am going to teach 1000 men to be the Greatest Lovers in the world.

I am going to teach 1000 men to be the Greatest Lovers in the world.

Melting a woman’s heart and having her totally satisfied in bed – to where she’s speechless, can’t even talk – that’s one of the best feelings in the world!

We ALL want to think that we leave our women that way at least every now and then. We secretly want to BE that kind of lover all the time.

Unfortunately, most women have learned to accept much less, and they long for more – they just don’t say anything.

As men, we all think it’s about the techniques we use, and we are going to go over all those techniques,
-You’re going to learn the ways to touch a woman the way that ignites her desire,
-You’re going to learn WHEN to touch her in which ways that gets her body and spirit feeling RELAXED and SAFE enough to not only welcome you, but where she is CRAVING YOU!

You’re going to learn all of the techniques, but touching her is not what excites her.

Sexual technique is vital to know, but you’re going to learn the secrets to igniting a woman’s passion!

We all know that saying “A lady in the dining room – A whore in the bedroom”, she WANTS to be that sex-loving whore with you.

Inside of every woman there is a sex-crazed lioness, just waiting to come out, and she probably feels like that lioness has been caged her whole life.

Now, There’s another part of her. It’s the part that’s holding the key to that cage . . . it’s like the guardian.

Well, you’re going to learn the secrets to get that part, that guardian part of her, to gladly unlock that cage.

Hell, she’ll give you the key! You can have her anytime you want, you just have to get past that guardian and get the key.

You just have to unlock it . . . and that’s all about the Heart.

I’ve spent the last 20 years working with women, listening to their concerns, complaints, and cravings.

They have been telling me what shuts them down and gets them un-interested . . .

And they’ve told me what turns them on.

As I began to understand what they need, I started putting it into practice . . . It works!

I’m not talking about sitting around and talking about your feelings all the time – I’m talking letting her feel your heart.

When she can feel your heart, she will want to she will want to melt into you, without saying a word!

Now be clear about this: I’m not talking about “how to seduce a woman” or “how to talk a woman into bed” – that would be like a hunter who wants that lioness as a trophy, walking up to the cage and shooting her in her cage. A man doing that is just doing it for his ego, and our egos are a turnoff to women.

More and more, women are learning to see through when a man is coming from a place of ego, that’s just the way society is going. They are learning to see the male insecurity behind it.

They are turned off by how we come across when we aren’t OK with ourselves. So we focus on being the kind of man that TURNS HER ON!

You’ll learn the secrets to the kind of confidence that makes us not only irresistible sexually, but where they feel like their heart, the Guardian, is safe with us –

By being REAL with them, we are NOT bringing false confidence – that just makes them roll their eyes to their friends when you aren’t looking.

Who is this program for?

It’s for men who want to have more sex, more amazing sex, and more deeply connected sex. It’s for men who are ready to have a woman quivering with ecstasy in their arms.

It doesn’t matter if you are single and dating or if you love your wife and want to re-ignite things in the bedroom, even if sex with your wife has gotten routine after 30 years of marriage, what you learn in this program will have her glowing at work the next morning! And you’ll smile knowing you brought that glow out of her!

This course is NOT for those trophy hunters, guys who are just trying to bag as many women as possible and don’t give a shit about women.

Now if you are Single and dating, you can imagine that making love with a woman like this could get you swarmed with women – where you have lots of women falling madly in love with you, feeling like you are “THE ONE”, trying to lock you down, throwing jealousy fits if you are dating anyone else. You’ll learn how to keep those women satisfied without feeling like they are trying to smother you.

You’ll learn to communicate confidently, passionately, and compassionately so she is clear about what you want and what you don’t want – and when you communicate it well, she will feel your INTEGRITY and want you even more for it!

With this program you’ll not only transform into one of the greatest lovers in the world, you’ll also get 2 awesome bonuses.

We are going to cover how to handle it when your woman seems to go crazy and throws a “fit.” We have all been through it, nothing seems like it is wrong, then all of a sudden she’s upset with you and you have no idea what it is. Those times you want to blow it off like, “The Bitch is just crazy” or “Typical woman, she’s just addicted to drama” or “she’s probably on the rag.” Instead of dismissing her like that, which closes her off to you, you’ll learn what’s REALLY going on inside her. And you’ll know how to how to manage it, so her “fit” (and your reaction to it) doesn’t wind up driving a wedge between you.

The second bonus is what to do during her period. Typically in our culture, women are shamed for their period and men learn to stay clear of them. But you’ll learn what she needs from you and how to manage her emotional swings and win her heart, again and again, with little effort – She will feel so safe and so honored with you that she’ll be hungry to unleash that sexual lioness on you.

There’s a link below to get in to this program. There are a limited number of spots, so get in early and make sure you don’t miss out on this opportunity to become the greatest lover you’ve ever been!

Be REAL. Be RAW. Make Your Life AWESOME.

So many people put themselves through so much heartache and so much misery because we’ve been taught to only value romantic love as love.

Anything else is judged as subpar in some way.

That notion that only romantic love is love is actually based in trying to get Safety and Security needs met and/or worthiness needs met in the relationship.

I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FASCINATED BY THE STIGMATA!

The ones who carry the wounds of Christ, the bleeding wrists are the most common (of this extremely rare phenomenon), are said to be deeply spiritual people who are often deeply tormented people.

The deepest faith means the deepest battles internally with our own “demons”.

For years, I had a secret fantasy that I would have something like the Stigmata as an outward symbol of my inner struggle.

I grew up being told I didn’t have faith because I didn’t buy into the Southern Baptist churchgoer’s ideas of what a “good person” should do and be.

But I also had a sense of the Divine that rumbled in the deepest part of my soul – but I couldn’t describe it.

“Maybe if my wrists bled, then I wouldn’t doubt my faith” seemed to be the thought I had.

But really it would, in some way, give me something to fight.

If it were something external it would be an easier fight than the one that I had.

I came to realize two things:

One, the only real sin is to not be true to who we really are – who God put us here to be.

Two, the real battle is to fight the way we think, the way we were taught to think about ourselves.

When we think in ways that prevent us from being who we really are and feel fantastic about being our authentic self, we are SCREWED!

Did you hear that?

THE ONLY REAL SIN IS TO NOT BE TRUE TO WHO WE REALLY ARE!

Here, let me put it in language the churchgoers will understand:

SELF-DOUBT AND FEAR OF JUDGEMENT ARE AN ABOMINATION!

If you are following the rules of being a “good person” you are telling God to go fuck herself!

Oh, wait.  You probably also think god is a man, don’t you?!  Whatever.

I fought and still fight against my own DOUBT and FEAR – I feel like I keep losing, and I keep fighting and keep growing.

Deeply Tormented?  YUP!

We all are, in some way.

My job is to get myself in front of those doubts and fears as well as I can, not stop myself, and keep pushing forward.

My biggest doubt is about my worth, the fear is about being judged and outcast, abandoned.

IF I HIDE WHO I REALLY AM AND ONLY SHARE WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE TO YOU, YOU WON’T JUDGE ME!

Of course it comes from abandonment issues as an infant, I know that, and the struggle plays out again every time I grow and up-level in any area of my life.

Here’s the problem:

Your judgments only come from your insecurities, not from any kind of moral righteousness (even though that’s what we were taught).

Although those fears don’t come up in my personal relationships much any more, they certainly come up as roadblocks to growing my business!

It’s an honor to serve and support people in their own empowerment as they learn how to get into alignment and to bring their true authentic selves into their most important relationships.

Out of an incredible Faith, devotion to a Spiritual Path, and insight into our inner emotional workings on the deepest levels, I have found three things keep coming up that need attention in our culture:

They are things that we all NEED and WANT:

Amazing Relationships

Great Sex

Spiritual Enlightenment

I wrote about all these a couple of days ago, if you missed it check it out here:

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10214829101103230&id=1297339917

All three of these are vital parts of who we are!

All three require authenticity, emotional awareness, growing sense of inner peace, depth of presence, and depth of spirit.

Whenever one is enhanced, it opens the door for greater senses in the others.

The same skills are needed for all three and their importance cannot be over-looked.

When you are ready to dive-deep into your own heart, the heart of the Divine, and into the heart those most important to you, you need to schedule some time to talk with me.

Isn’t it time to start the life you dreamed of?!

Be REAL.  Be RAW.  Make Your Life AWESOME.

DAD, IS THIS ONE OF THOSE “MY DAD IS A THERAPIST” MOMENTS?

Yes, my stand-up comedian daughter, at age 11, will bust my balls from time to time – she’s brilliant at it.

She is an empath.

She is Empathic – without trying she feels other’s feelings.

She felt the pain of a character on tv.

We stopped a movie to talk about what was going on.

FUCK! SHE’S 11 YEARS OLD, WHY CAN’T SHE BE A LITTLE GIRL A LITTLE LONGER!

But secretly I am proud of her. Of course she’s an empath! Of course she’s psychic!

She was conceived of two people who dedicated their lives to studying the Medicine Path in a Native American spiritual Tradition.

BEING AN EMPATH DOESN’T HAVE TO LEAD TO PAIN!

I felt every one’s pain when I was little – all I got was pity.

I was told I was “too sensitive.”

I was told I was “too serious all the time.”

I was confused and felt like there was something wrong with me.

“JoJo, you will feel other’s people’s emotions the rest of your life. You feel them big. You can take them in and feel sad, but we were born to be healers – to be beacons of Light.”

“Dad, I feel it all the time. It doesn’t end.” She said matter-of-fact-ly.

“I know, sweetie. Me too. It never ends. Here is the thing: When we make peace with our own hurts inside, we don’t feel like we are drowning in other’s pain.

It is not your pain. Your job is to know what it is like to hurt and to know that Love and Light can heal the hurt.”

THIS GIRL IS GOING TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH SOME REAL HURTS. I HATE IT AND IT HAPPENS TO ALL HEALERS.

In Shamanic teachings, the first healing any shaman has to do is on themself.

If she chooses to walk this path, she is going to have to hurt and heal.

I don’t want to push her, and I want to support her.

Now the part that had us laughing until we both had tears in our eyes was that (during her current fascination with HotPockets) she described holding space for someone who is hurting like, ” your heart is a big HotPocket and you wrap them up in the warm meat and cheesy center of a giant HotPocket.” (don’t judge, I bought a box of HotPockets)

Seriously, how many women are just now understanding and making peace with their intuition as they get into their late 30’s and early 40’s?!

What if you had been given the support and guidance you needed when you were young?

What if you grew up feeling EMPOWERMENT?!

Whether you are 42 years old, making up for lost time, or just starting your journey like my daughter,

IT IS YOUR TIME!

Don’t buy into that “don’t be selfish” crap!  Take excellent care of you!

Selfish people who didn’t want to face their own insecurities taught you to “Don’t Be Selfish.”
(but that’s a different discussion)

You get to decide what story is told. No longer will you let someone else’s fear and shut-down dictate what is talked about.

For now, MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR PAIN!

That way, when you feel bombarded by other’s pain and emotions, you don’t lose your emotional center.

I only work with psychics and intuitives helping them to make peace with their old hurts and they won’t lose their emotional center –

They get to stay in that place where they feel nothing but Light and Love more and more and more.

When you are ready for that next level shit, schedule the time to talk with me.

Be REAL. Be RAW. Make Your Life AWESOME.

USE THE WORD “CHEATING” TO PAINT YOURSELF AS A VICTIM!

It works every single time.

Should they have had sex with someone else without telling you?

OF COURSE NOT!  (But not because it did you wrong.)

Keeping secrets keeps THEM from feeling the amazing feeling of being FREE –

Telling the truth is its own gift, to you as well.

It gives you both the chance to make decisions from a place of power.

But there are actually two issues involved, not just the lie.

The two issues get mashed together, confused.

(which helps in the BLAME/VICTIM GAME)

Did they have sex with someone else?  Yes.

Did that take something away from you?  NO!  (except your illusions)

Did it bring out your insecurities?  Are you scared the other is a better lover than you?

Are you scared your beloved can’t love you as much if they had sex with another?

THAT’S WHAT WE WERE TAUGHT!

It’s a lie, but it’s what we were taught.

When we use the word “cheating” we all have accepted what it means,

BUT VERY FEW HAVE DEVELOPED AWARENESS ABOUT ALL OF WHAT IT MEANS TO US.

What people ACTUALLY TALK ABOUT when their partner has “cheated”,

invariably comes down to something

THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEIR PARTNER OR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE!

Disrespect, Deserving better, Cheater, Liar . . . THOSE COME FROM YOUR OWN SELF-WORTH ISSUES!

I am not saying it’s ok to have sex with someone else without you knowing,

I’m saying that you are going to put yourself through hell (LOTS OF VICTIM MINDSET DRAMA) if you aren’t clear about where your reactions come from.

Whether you want to stay together or not, the issues that come up INSIDE YOU need to heal.

You can heal together – or you can heal apart, but walking away, blaming/judging the other JUST HOLDS YOU BACK.

Judging the other as a “cheater” may bolster your EGO,

and it keeps you stuck in that SAME VIBRATION OF PLAYING THE VICTIM.

You DO deserve better FROM YOURSELF than to PAINT YOURSELF AS A VICTIM.

LEARN THE DIFFERENCE if you want to really take off in your life.

IF YOU WANT TO STAND IN YOUR POWER, you can’t do it by playing the victim.

If this pisses you off, there is a gift in it for you.

You’ve probably felt like you you’ve spent your whole life FIGHTING to feel your own worth!

You need to know your worth.

If this pisses you off, it’s showing you the next step in growing into a truly CONFIDENT place.

You deserve UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE!  And there are no shortcuts, YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!

IT’S TIME TO TAKE THAT NEXT STEP,

Send me a message and schedule a time to talk today.

Be REAL.  Be RAW.  Make Your Life AWESOME.

THE HARDEST ISSUE IN THERAPY!

While people QUIT therapy most to avoid learning to set boundaries, it’s an easy issue to teach.

BOUNDARIES ARE EASY.  YOU JUST HAVE TO LEARN.

What is hard?

CHEATING!

Why is it hard?

Not because of BETRAYAL,
Not because of LIES,

It’s NOT because of the things that people always talk about when cheating happens . . .

It’s because of what people DON’T TALK ABOUT!
(usually it’s the part that pisses them off the most, too)

Kids pay a big price when parents don’t deal with their shit well –
it’s hard enough to go through,
it’s even harder without guidance, and kids suffer more . . .

Why do some people immediately want to leave when their partner cheats?
Why do some people want to save the relationship when their partner cheats?

Why do we have so much judgement about it?

In order to SAVE THE RELATIONSHIP, or successfully move on, without emotional baggage
NOT ONLY DO YOU HAVE TO DIG DEEP –
you have to answer questions you don’t want to answer.

WHEN WE ARE HURT, THE LAST THING WE WANT TO DO IS BE MORE VULNERABLE!

And anything less is just plain chickenshit!

Recovering from an affair is incredibly hard.

And it is even harder if you don’t know how to do it or what the real issues are!

If you and your partner are struggling, or you are struggling alone,

Let’s make the time to talk.

Send me a private message or call 615-653-9198 and schedule our first talk.

Be REAL.  Be RAW.  Make Your Life AWESOME.

I AM TERRIFIED OF YOU JUDGING ME!

One of my biggest personal bug-a-boos is that I am out there on the leading edge and have some next level shit to teach and in order to teach it, I’m going to have to fuck with your head.

SOME DAYS IT KILLS ME.

Some days I just don’t feel strong enough to go kick the world’s ass . . .

And on those days I have a choice: I can lay low and feel that gap between what my soul is longing for (TO SHINE BRIGHT AND SHARE THE PROFOUND SHIT I CAME TO TEACH) and what I feel like doing – FEELING THAT GAP FEELS LIKE SHIT!

OR

I can CONFRONT the fear and get on with doing what I love and face the potential judging and shaming that could come.

BUT HERE’S THE DEAL . . .

We get from the universe what we put out.

The world will only judge you IF YOU ARE JUDGING YOU!

If I am in a place of FAITH and CONFIDENCE, then people don’t even bother – they get scared off by true confidence and faith.

People can only fuck with you in the areas where YOU ARE ALREADY FUCKING WITH YOU!

It’s no wonder I am so good at coaching people who need to step into a place of faith about being who they are – I know all the bullshit excuses for hiding!

So look at the places where you say:

I DON’T EVEN WANT TO TALK ABOUT THAT . . .

What if the thing keeping you “stuck” is a belief that is not-negotiable for you?

You don’t even want to talk about it!

What if you have to open your mind in order to free your heart and soul?

It could be your self-image, you may be believing, BECAUSE YOU WERE TAUGHT, you have to be a certain way –
And it isn’t a good fit for WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

It could be a belief you have based on a fear or insecurity –
Those beliefs hold you back from stepping up and being who you really are!

The biggest problems come when we have the belief based on insecurity (fear of being a bad person) that says, “IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE (this certain thing), YOU ARE BAD!” So you can’t even look at the thing that holds you back because there is a rule that says YOU WILL BE HELD BACK IF YOU LOOK AT THIS!

What a convoluted mind fuck that is!

(And most of those fears of being “a bad person” are projected onto others and come up as FEAR OF BEING JUDGED BY OTHERS.)

It is when we look at the ways in which we are scared of being judged that we find NOT ONLY the greatest areas of growth, also the AREAS OF OUR GREATEST GIFTS!

To build the FOUNDATION for your most awesome life, and get the RELATIONSHIP TOOLS you need to make your love and your life TOTALLY FUCKING AWESOME, get the Pillars of Awesome Relationships Video Training today. http://www.marcusambrester.com/how-to-become-a-relationship-master/

Your partner will wonder what has happened to you!

By learning to be super comfortable within yourself, you will see your partner soften.

By learning what holds you back, you will learn to step into your greatest self.

You will go from feeling hurt, frustration, anger and resentment to feeling COMPASSION and UNSHAKABLE CONFIDENCE

Do yourself, your partner, your kids, and your world and favor AND GET THIS VIDEO TRAINING! http://www.marcusambrester.com/how-to-become-a-relationship-master/

Be REAL. Be RAW. Make your life AWESOME!