DO WE LIVE IN A JUDGMENTAL CULTURE?
Some say YES – some say NO. What’s the difference? We all live in the same world . . .
Well, the world mirrors what we are inside, what believe about ourself.
When someone is judgmental, most people don’t understand what’s really going on.
Judgement can alleviate ONE TYPE of pressure from a social discomfort, but it doesn’t alleviate the REAL DISCOMFORT!
If I judge you for doing something I don’t like, something I think is “bad”, I feel a little bit more worthy, that’s what judgement does.
JUDGMENT BOSTERS THE FRAGILE EGO!
That’s why people say, “When people judge me, it says more about them than it does about me.” That’s true.
If you are judging, it says that you are in that lower vibrational place of judgement, rather than the higher vibrational place of acceptance, love, compassion.
If I judge you, I am limiting my own emotional energy – it may mask my own insecurity or disowned part of myself, but it doesn’t heal the root of that disconnect within me.
JUDGMENT OF YOU DOESN’T MAKE ME OUTGROW MY INSECURITY!
JUDGMENT OF YOU DOESN’T INTEGRATE THE PART OF ME I REJECT (that part of me that I don’t accept, that I judge when I see it in you.)
I hear from so many people that they are tired of being judged.
I get it, I wouldn’t want to walk around feeling judged either – AND it doesn’t stop unless we know and take responsibility for where the judgment comes from, OURSELVES! WE CREATE IT!
Well, maybe we didn’t create it, but we sure as hell perpetuate it!
If you are in a defensive place, defending against being judged, you are still in that judgmental place – you are just on the other side of it.
While it feels better to be on the other side of it, THERE’S A WHOLE OTHER LEVEL OF PEACE AND JOY POSSIBLE.
Are you ready to step into a greater level of peace and joy?
IT IS EASY TO STOP BEING JUDGED!
Stop judging yourself – when you stop judging yourself, it means you are accepting yourself.
When you accept yourself, you raise your vibration and you won’t be confronted with judgement.
Or when someone does judge you, it won’t stick – you blow it off, EASILY.
In order to be disturbed by someone’s judgment, there has to be some kind of hook within us.
When we eliminate that hook inside us, the judgment can’t take hold.
Are you ready to quit putting so much energy into defending yourself?
Are you ready to feel massive amounts of energy into making your life peaceful and joyful?
Be REAL. Be RAW. Make Your Life AWESOME.