You were born for more that feeling like the last priority in your life. You were born to take great care of you, meeting your needs first so you enjoy your life and THEN (if you want) can greatly care for others, and be a blessing to those you love.
You weren’t born to feel UNWANTED and UNHEARD in your relationships. You were born to stand CONFIDENTLY knowing your worth, with the ability to confront anything that lands “less than loving” with you!
YOU WERE BORN TO BE A GODDESS!
If you are ready to shift from wanting to scream, “IT’S TIME FOR ME!” to being excited to take great care of you , without guilt or shame . . . .
If you are ready to say NO to what doesn’t serve your highest good . . . .
If you are ready to create, attract, and/or transform your relationships into the love you have always dreamed of . . .
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UNLEASH YOUR INNER GODDESS
It is time to Unleash Your Inner Goddess!
I help women who feel like screaming, “IT’S TIME FOR ME!” – women who feel like the last priority in their own lives; they are scared they aren’t enough, and they feel unwanted and unheard in relationships.
Using my proven “B*I*G” system, you will “UNLEASH YOUR INNER GODDESS” and understand why it is NECESSARY to take good care of yourself so they can be good moms, good friends, and good partners.
You will be CONFIDENT standing up for yourself, and learn to create the love you really want – a love where you feel HEARD, HONORED, and totally WANTED.
– Go From feeling like the last priority in your life to knowing why it’s necessary to take great care of you. Learn to be Selfish enough to get into Alignment with who YOU ARE MEANT TO BE!
– Go from being scared you aren’t enough to feeling CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENT STANDING IN YOUR POWER, and confident STANDING UP FOR YOURSELF.
– Go from feeling UNWANTED and UNHEARD to attracting the love you want in your life and/or transforming your relationship and feeling that love every day!
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LET YOURSELF BE B*I*G!
Going through my proven B*I*G system, you will learn to set BOUNDARIES easily so that you create a protected space around you. Setting Boundaries is scary at first and most of us were never taught how to do it, much less do it well.
Most women were taught to NOT set boundaries. Most women were taught that setting boundaries is mean, hurts people’s feelings, or that it makes you a BITCH! The truth is that YOU ONLY HEAR THOSE THINGS FROM PEOPLE WHO DON’T WANT BOUNDARIES SET WITH THEM! They are too insecure to insecure to deal with their own feelings, much less be confronted about them by someone else. And they will hurt, well they won’t, THEIR EGO WILL BE BRUISED if you set boundaries. But ultimately, it will be the best thing for them.
Going through my proven B*I*G system, you will learn to walk, speak to others, and talk to yourself IN COMPLETE ALIGNMENT WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF – THE WOMAN YOU WERE BORN TO BE!
WHY I WORK WITH WOMEN:
I was brought up on a diet of gender equality. I saw how awesome EMPOWERED WOMEN are – there weren’t many women PhD’s in the 70’s and early 80’s, I got to know A LOT of them.
My father studied feminist rhetoric back in the 60’s and I saw first-hand the transformation that happens when a woman begins to BELIEVE IN HERSELF and eliminate the things that don’t support her. I also saw the impact it has on a woman’s life when she doesn’t speak up and confront those who treat her less than honoring-ly! This includes when she doesn’t speak to herself and treat herself lovingly and with honor.
While my dad taught me about women’s empowerment, he never outgrew his southern upbringing, and didn’t practice equality at home. So while I couldn’t believe stories about women who stayed in relationships where they felt like the lowest priority, I learned to treat my mom like she was the slave of the family and her needs didn’t matter.
She worked full-time, as a teacher, and still my dad and I expected her to do EVERYTHING around the house.
For example, we had dinner at the table every night, growing up, Dad and I sat so we could still see the TV, mom couldn’t see it, and I learned that “women don’t matter.” It didn’t make sense to me back then, and I took it that my mom was “fine.” She said she was “fine” so it must be OK, right?
Looking back, I wish I had spoken up at age 10. I wish my mom had spoken up and set some boundaries demanding that she be treated well.
All it would have taken was ONE TIME for my mom to say, “Hey guys, I’m glad you guys enjoy the TV during dinner, and it stinks for me. Marcus, will you turn the TV off every night when we start dinner?” And if she had wanted to make sure I really got it, she could have said, “Marcus, I want you to grow up and know how to treat a woman well. It’s not OK for you guys to watch TV during dinner and I can’t see it. So, every night when we sit down to dinner, will you turn the TV off, please?”
It didn’t happen because my dad would have been offended, been defensive, belittled her, and NOT BACKED HER UP with the BOUNDARY she was setting with me.
Since that never happened, naturally, in my early 20’s I met the love of my life and I still had the teachings of women’s empowerment.
So I taught the love of my life how well she deserved to be treated and because I ALSO learned to be like my dad, I had taught her that SHE DESERVED TO BE TREATED BETTER THAN I TREATED HER! I had the modeled behavior of my dad which didn’t honor the women closest to me.
The love of my life was gone, because I didn’t practice what I preached, but I didn’t care, because I also learned from my dad to be arrogant.
Something had to change!
While I acted arrogant on the outside, I was really hurting more and more inside.
I have been blessed to have some strong, badass women mentors in my life who have taught me so much about being the kind of man I want to be. I was always aware that my mom was treated unfairly and I learned to treat women unfairly.
I got called out really hard on how I was, and it inspired me. I had to eat a lot of “humble pie” – I realized that I was treating girlfriends just like my dad had treated my mom.
It felt like shit to get confronted and it was the best thing for me – it forced me to grow and get a sense of how my dishonoring behavior affected the women I cared about.
Working as a therapist and growing in my own spiritual path, I have seen how much women’s spirits are shut down and dismissed in our Patriarchal culture.
THE MOMENT THAT CHANGED MY LIFE
I had gone to have dinner one night at my parent’s house when I was in my mid-20s. My mom had just come back from a road trip picking up a bunch of stuff (mostly clothes) that belonged to her brother, my uncle, after his divorce.
Although my uncle hadn’t died, picking up his stuff triggered the memory for my mom of when she gathered a bunch of her father’s, my grandfather’s, clothes after HIS death.
As we were sitting at the dinner table, I saw my mom’s face change as she described being 20yrs old and pulling her father’s dirty clothes out of the laundry hamper to wash them the day after he passed.
She began to re-live this hurt of her father’s death. That hurt had been buried inside for 30 years. She never felt it or let it out! She began to describe holding her father’s undershirt and how she could smell him in that shirt, then she stopped talking. Her eyes were bugged out as she looked far into the past, she covered her mouth trying to keep the pain inside – she looked like she was about to explode! I could feel how big this was! I didn’t know what to do. I DIDN’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
I looked to my dad, who just sat there. He didn’t know what to do, either.
I KNEW there was a way to help my mom alleviate this hurt – I had some kind of sense that she needed to go deeper into the hurt and then it would heal, but I DIDN’T KNOW HOW TO HELP HER!
I wanted to help so badly and I didn’t know what to do.
From that day on, I have made it my mission in life to be able help – to know what to do, to know what to say, TO KNOW WHO TO BE, so I could be of service to those who are hurting – to help them heal on the DEEPEST levels, not just on the surface where you get patted on the head.
I help people find true emotional freedom.
I didn’t know that this quest would lead to discovering spirituality, I didn’t know it would lead to discovering, respecting, and teaching the Divine Feminine energy, I didn’t know it would lead to understanding women and seeing how they hold themselves back from being their amazing selves, but I am humbled and grateful every day for the chance to do this work.
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I WAS THE PRODUCT OF A RAPE. I wasn’t wanted, I came into this world feeling and thinking, “Everything would be fine IF I WOULD JUST GO AWAY!” That was the message received in the womb. I was adopted by the two awesome people I talked about earlier and even though they loved me really well, the wound was still there. “I shouldn’t be here!” The wound was specific, it was about women, and of course it was really about just one woman, my birth mother, who I did not meet again until I was 24yo. And when I met her, it was a disaster.
I felt like I needed love – like we all do. I was hoping the love of a woman would fill the emptiness inside, but I always felt ashamed for wanting that love. The story I told myself was that, “my desire for love is a burden to others, my energy and presence feel bad, toxic to women.”
While my desire to be loved wasn’t coming from the best place (trying to fill the hole I felt inside and I shamed myself for it) what I noticed is that so many women didn’t have the confidence in themselves, nor the loving presence – the connection with their own Divine Goddess energy to help me, but I was able to help them get in touch with those parts of themselves they were missing.
I was keenly aware of how they shamed themselves, how UNHEARD and UNSEEN they felt, and how they didn’t believe they were worthy of love. They didn’t have the CONFIDENCE or communication skills to set BOUNDARIES with men (and other women) who shut them down, told them they were wrong and bad, and/or reacted defensively when they felt threatened.
In one sense, I didn’t get what I was wanting personally, but what I did realize I needed to heal myself, so I could hold a big enough space, a strong enough space to help these women heal and grow into the best versions of themselves. I have continuously sought out my own healing so that I could offer these healing, transformative teachings to women people and it is the women who are starting to “wake up” first.
I love working with men and for the most part, men don’t begin to deal with their own shit until they get confronted by a woman (or by life, but most often a woman) to be bigger than they are currently living. As I wrote in my book, Pillars of Awesome Relationships, “When we are being closed-off jerks, be willing to call us on our defensive deflection tactics and take responsibility for what you know. If it comes to it, walk away if you need to. If every woman in the world decided to set a higher standard and walk away from men who do not measure up emotionally, the men of the world would take it as a wake-up call and step up the learning curve. (Either that, or we would all become homosexual; either way, you would be better off.)”
I have noticed that women seem to be waking up to their own power, their own CONFIDENCE, and are hungry to grow. What started as a desire to find my own wholeness, uncovered a passion for being a man, a masculine man, who has his heart open and is a Champion for Women.
So few women have never had a masculine presence in their life who can show up fully with his heart open, care about them and not want anything from them – and only want the best for them, a man who has healthy boundaries – a man who is not going to be threatened by a strong woman, but in fact, can encourage women to step into their fullest strength and confidence.
So why do I work with women?
I do it because I have a great vision for Humanity. I see a world where every person can live in peace and not be held back by their own hidden pain – where we are able to love each other well, resolve conflicts easily and grow closer to each other, grow closer to our own Divine nature through the resolution process.
There is a whole different flavor to life when we are completely Authentic, living in integrity with ourselves and with those closest to us. I want everyone to know the Joy and Peace that is available to us all. It is a Sacred Honor to do this work every day.
I help women who feel like screaming, “IT’S TIME FOR ME!” – women who feel like the last priority in their own life, they are scared they aren’t enough, and they feel unheard, unwanted, and rejected in relationships.
In my “UNLEASH YOUR INNER GODDESS” program, I help them to know why it’s NECESSARY to take good care of themselves to be a good mom, a good friend, and a good partner. They learn how to feel confident standing in their power, and how to create the love they really want where they feel heard, honored, and wanted.
I notice the ways that people don’t fully show up.
I notice how the cultural ideas and beliefs about gender and gender roles encourage us to hold back, ignore who we truly are, and I notice all the ways and times people don’t speak up for themselves, set boundaries and enforce those boundaries.
One of my gifts is to feel the difference between when someone is talking and their story doesn’t resonate with who they truly are – I can feel the congruency when someone’s talking, thinking, and believing IS NOT in alignment with their Highest self, who spirit put them here to be.
I feel it when people contract instead of speaking up or when they speak and don’t tell the whole truth and especially when they only tell the part of the story that they feel would be acceptable.
Our Souls are made of pure Love. Old hurts buried inside (and the fears, habits, and insecurities that go with them) are the only thing that keep us from feeling the flow of DIVINE LOVE every second of our lives.
Healing those hurts, learning new habits that support our happiness is necessary to maintain growth on our path to Enlightenment.
YOU ONLY HAVE ONE FUCKING CHOICE!!!!!
Like it or not, that’s all you get – ONE CHOICE . . . in this moment.
YOU CAN BELIEVE THE TRUTH . . . OR . . . . YOU CAN BELIEVE A LIE.
You can either believe the truth about you, or not! That’s your only choice.
YOU CAN BE YOU . . . OR NOT!
The Truth: You are a Blessed, Divine Gift.
Of course we all have heard that and we know we are supposed to feel that way . . . but we don’t.
Here’s the fucking problem: WE DON’T KNOW EXACTLY WHY WE DON’T FEEL DIVINELY BLESSED! WHY DON’T YOU FEEL LIKE A DIVING GIFT?
Do you feel like the last priority in your life? Do you feel UNHEARD and UNWANTED in your relationships? This is either because you haven’t been taught the TRUTH OF YOUR LOVABLENESS or you haven’t set BOUNDARIES when people treated you less than lovingly and honoringly.
IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT (not that blame ever helps ) . . .
You were NOT taught the TRUTH ABOUT YOU, your worth, and your lovableness.
You were NOT taught to see through other’s insecurities when you were put-down, dismissed, and not honored.
You were NOT taught to set BOUNDARIES around other’s treatment of you – in fact, you were probably taught that it was wrong to set boundaries BY THE PEOPLE WITH WHOM YOU NEEDED TO SET THOSE BOUNDARIES.
Setting HEALTHY BOUNDARIES, taking GREAT care of yourself and meeting your needs first so you can be a great partner, mom, and friend, and developing UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE are all learnable skills – in fact, they are our natural state.
I HAVE A VISION!
I believe in love.
I believe that love is the bright light that illuminates our hurts when it is time for our hurts to heal.
I believe there is only one kind of Love, Divine Love.
I believe there are many different flavors to Divine Love and each of those flavors are no less Divine than the others.
I believe that humans have been emotionally wounded – EVERY ONE OF US!
I believe that wounding shows up in myriad ways.
I believe that some people don’t feel LOVABLE, and most of them feel SHAME.
I believe that wounding and shame prevents us from showing up with each other as our best selves AND BEING A PRESENCE OF DIVINE LOVE.
I believe that EVERYONE is capable of feeling Divine Love flowing through them and to them and from them all the time.
I believe a lot of people have not learned how to feel that love consistently, especially during conflict.
I believe people are hungry for the CONFIDENCE that comes from believing they are worthy.
I believe we are WORTHY and that does not change.
I believe that when we are hurt, wounded, and scared, our behavior can be less than loving and some people judge that as “bad.”
I believe that we were taught that the behaviors we call “bad” make us and/or others bad peole.
I believe we make these judgments because we haven’t learned to set appropriate BOUNDARIES around other’s (and our own) behaviors and we lose touch/connection with Divine Love that is available to us every moment.
I believe that many of us have been taught that it is not loving to set BOUNDARIES, that we are not loving, or we are not being loved when boundaries are set with us.
I believe Divine Love is not only available to us, it is what we are.
I believe when we lose touch with our own Divine nature in moments of pain/fear/conflict, we don’t feel Divine Love.
I believe when we learn to heal our hurts, we are able to help others heal theirs.
I believe that spirituality can not be separated from emotional healing and healthy relationships, when we try to focus on any one part or without one of those parts, it doesn’t go as well. (understatement)
I believe that when we heal our hurts we become more in touch with our OWN Divinity.
I believe humans like how it feels to be in touch with their own Divine nature.
I believe we feel Free and INFINITELY LOVABLE when we feel our true, divine selves.
I believe the only thing that prevents us from feeling our True Divine Selves is the hurts and pain and fears we carry with us and the ignorance that results .
I believe we develop ways of thinking and seeing the world that minimize our awareness of our hurts – we avoid seeing them because we don’t want to feel them.
I believe we have thoughts that not only prevent us from feeling those hurts – we have thoughts that perpetuate the hurts.
I believe that feeling pain sucks most of the time.
I believe feeling pain is much less sucky when we know the expanded freedom and Divine Love that that awaits us on the other side of the healing.
I believe that healing requires some emotional skills and the Spiritual skill of feeling Divine Love.
I believe few of us have been taught these skills.
I believe that in order to heal and have AWESOME RELATIONSHIPS, we also need awesome communication skills.
I believe we should all learn the skills, the emotional skills, communication skills, the spiritual skills to help facilitate each other’s healing.
I believe that helping each other heal at the deepest levels makes way for AWESOME RELATIONSHIPS!
I believe that AWESOME RELATIONSHIPS is one of the greatest vehicles for feeling and experiencing Divine Love in our lives.
I believe in YOU!
I believe that you are a Gift!
I believe that if you are not feeling like a gift to the world and to the people in your life, it is because there is some hurt, fear blocking that awareness/experience.
I believe we all have an incredible capacity to love and be loved.
I believe humans are here to experience our own unique expression of Divine Love that is expressed in our own unique desires, talents, and feelings.
I believe it is time for you to contact me to begin the next phase of your journey in being your True Divine Self and healing what gets in the way of you feeling and knowing how AWESOME you really are.
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You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to know how strong and beautiful you are. You deserve to live life ON YOUR TERMS! You deserve be HEARD. You deserve to know that defensive and critical people are NOT WORTH your time. You deserve the BEST treatment. You deserve to say “no” in a way that makes people want to go away. You deserve to say “yes” enthusiastically, ONLY TO THE THINGS THAT DELIGHT YOU. You deserve to know the difference between a man who honors you and one who is so insecure that he is threatened by you. You deserve to know all this now and not wait until life beats you down.
Using my proven B*I*G system, you will UNLEASH YOUR INNER GODDESS and learn to EASILY SET BOUNDARIES, WALK IN CONFIDENCE, AND CREATE/ATTRACT THE LOVING RELATIONSHIPS YOU’VE BEEN DREAMING OF!
IF YOU CAN’T SET BOUNDARIES, YOU CAN’T WALK IN INTEGRITY
So many women feel UNHEARD in their relationships, they want to feel their feminine energy, and they secretly long to embrace their sexual energy in a big way. It’s possible! You just got to do a couple things . . .
SET BOUNDARIES AND WALK IN INTEGRITY . . . sounds simple, doesn’t it?!?!
Integrity is not ONLY about telling the truth and doing what we say we’re going to do and not doing what we say we’re not going to do. INTEGRITY is also about being ALL OF WHO WE ARE – sharing the parts of us others might not like.
We all hate telling people “no.”
WE HAVE TO SAY “NO” TO WHAT IS NO GOOD FOR US – even if others are uncomfortable with it.
If we don’t give ourselves permission to say “NO” to what is no good for us, then we don’t create the safe space to say “YES” to what we truly want and will make our lives better.
Why do we have to learn to set boundaries before we can get into integrity?
In all my years of coaching and helping people to grow into their biggest selves and achieving their dreams, I’ve seen that until people really give themselves permission to set boundaries – and develop that skill, their awareness is not fully open to all of who they are. Without confidence in boundary setting, before they begin to think big, they will cut themselves off saying, “He won’t like that” “I could never say that” “I don’t want to be mean” or “that’s just gonna make things worse.”
When people don’t learn to set BOUNDARIES, an automatic thought will cut off their own greatness because they have thoughts like, “I couldn’t do that”, “I could never say that”, “somebody would be too upset, I don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings”, or “I don’t want to be mean.”
We must learn to set boundaries in order to create that safe space in our own world. Without it, we can’t grow as big as we need to grow.
I want you to go from feeling UNHEARD to feeling CONFIDENT, STANDING IN YOUR POWER, and attracting the love you want or transforming your relationship. Enroll in this program now.
LIMIT THE LIMITS THAT LIMIT YOU!
YOU CAN BELIEVE THE TRUTH OR YOU COULD BELIEVE A LIE!
In one way, it is very simple. You get to choose how your life will go.
You can believe the worst about you – that you are SMALL, UNIMPORTANT, and don’t deserve much, or
YOU CAN BELIEVE THE BEST ABOUT YOU!
So many women feel like the last priority in their lives, they are ready to scream “IT’S TIME FOR ME!”
They’re scared they aren’t enough, and they feel UNHEARD and UNWANTED in relationships.
By using my proven B.I.G. system, women go from feeling unsure to feeling CONFIDENT – from feeling
I WANT TO GIVE YOU A GIFT!
It will save you at least a decade of your life in the next three months.
I want to give you the next decade of your life and help you make it the life that you dream of.
Don’t live the next decade feeling like screaming, “IT’S TIME FOR ME!” – Live where you KNOW that tending to your needs sets the standard by which you will be treated.
Go from being scared you aren’t enough, to feeling CONFIDENT & STANDING IN YOUR POWER!
You might discover these lessons on your own, in time. But why wait when the quality of your life is on the line?!
Did you know that there is one simple way to get everyone to treat you incredibly well? Did you know that it also eliminates toxic people from your life and eliminates DRAMA, freeing up MASSIVE amounts of energy you can use to move forward in your life?
When we don’t TAKE TIME and MAKE TIME for ourselves, we end up resentful, blaming others for how we feel. Making ourselves a priority, tending to our own needs, sets the standard by which all others will treat us!
RISE OF THE GODDESS
Goddess . . . Is this just some kind of new-agey feminism? Is it just an EGO thing for women to feel better about themselves? Or worse yet, is this a Spiritual By-Pass thing – a spiritual rationale to avoid dealing with their emotional crap?
Why am I, a masculine man, talking about it?
The Dali Lama said, “It is the Western Women who will change the world.” I believe that.
Western women are stepping out of a patriarchal way of being and thinking.
I grew up surrounded by strong, professional women. I grew up on a diet of gender equality, and feminist rhetoric.
I saw the shift when a woman came into her own and began believing in herself – feeling CONFIDENCE. But I also saw it not practiced. I saw my mother collapse energetically when my father wouldn’t listen to her, made fun of her ideas, asserted his “intellectual dominance” over her, WHAT I CAME TO SEE AS HIS FRAGILE EGO PROTECTING THE SCARED LITTLE BOY INSIDE.
I had women mentors, carriers of the Divine Feminine Energy, show up in my life at a time when I needed massive guidance and support during Spiritual Awakening, they were Medicine Women in a Native American tradition. I felt like I was dying inside, haunted on a soul-level by the feeling that I should have never come into this world – (that’s a whole other conversation about how you communicate with your child while they are still in the womb.)
These women showed up with a presence I had never encountered – holding my heart, holding space for me to grow into the man I was capable of being, and KICKING MY ASS when I needed it. I have come to recognize this presence as Goddess energy – Divine Feminine essence.
The Divine Feminine is a Spiritual and emotional presence that is different than men’s spiritual presence, not incompatible – just different.
It is however incompatible as far as I can tell with Patriarchy, with men who have their heart and emotions shut down, and it’s incompatible with a purely logical, devoid of emotion, way of being in the world.
That Divine Feminine leadership has been shut down and dismissed for too long in our culture – replaced by the leadership of the FRAGILE MALE EGO. Few women are taught growing up their true nature, their true power, and the true essence of their Heart and Sexual energy.
I PUT YOU ALL ON NOTICE! THE GODDESS IS RETURNING!!!
In addition to women’s ability to create life within their bodies through conception, they also have the ability to create life energetically, or rather they can create LIFE-FULL-NESS in the presence they bring to everyday life.
Women are the Creators, the lovers, and the enforcers or boundaries – it is women set the emotional tone for relationships (though most have been taught to hide this ability).
When women STAND IN THEIR POWER, and lead with their Hearts wide-open, not ruled by old hurts and un-resolved resentments, their guidance is no less than inspiring.
A Goddess shows up aware of who she is, aware of her spiritual presence, aware of the presence of the Divine in her life. She is aware of how she hasn’t been true to herself, she accepts responsibility for all the ways she has held herself back while still holding others accountable for their actions that are less than divinely loving.
She doesn’t hide in denial of the hurts she has endured – She has so thouroghly healed that hurts that now those experiences are what giver her strength.
She doesn’t hide her own power from herself by playing the victim. She owns her power by being keenly aware of how she has created to situations in which she was hurt, the STANDS IN HER POWER, setting boundaries to protect herself from being in the same situations again.
As I began to heal (through my massive resistance to my own shit), I began to see in my sisters healing alongside me. It is time for us all to heal.
I saw what brought Spiritual Awaked-ness was when we healed our emotional shit!
GODDESS is your Natural State.
I was brought up on a diet of gender equality, how awesome EMPOWERED WOMEN are, and saw first-hand the transformation that happens when a woman begins to believe in herself. I also saw the impact it has on a relationship when a woman doesn’t speak up and confront her partner when he treats her less that honoring-ly.
So many women were taught to “let’s shit slide.” WHY? Essentially, because his EGO “couldn’t handle” being confronted.
YOU ARE A GODDESS.
You don’t have to do anything to feel, achieve, or attain your Goddess Energy, all you have to do is eliminate what blocks it!
Goddess is your natural state!
CONFIDENCE is your natural state. Yet, you were taught to be SMALL.
Easily setting firm BOUNDARIES to protect your own Heart and your own Energy is your natural state. Yet, you were taught it wasn’t “loving”, and it’s not OK to take care of YOU, because someone’s EGO may be bruised!
Taking great care of you is your natural state. Yet, you were shamed for it, called SELFISH.
Doing the things that make you feel wonderful and sexy is your natural state. Easily making those things a priority, without feeling guilty about it is your Natural state. Yet, doing those things was never supported, unless it directly served someone else.
YOU ARE A GODDESS.
ALLOWING YOUR GODDESS-NESS TO BLOSSOM IS NOT JUST ANOTHER THING YOU HAVE TO TAKE ON.
The only thing you have to do is . . . get this . . . GOING TO GIVE YOU ENERGY! It’s going to give you energy emotionally, spiritually, and physically!
SAY NO TO WHAT DOESN’T SERVE YOU!
Sounds simple doesn’t it?!?! It is! But do you know the greatest source of what doesn’t serve us? You need to!
It’s easy to point a finger at the people who have hurt us, drug us down, belittled us, withheld love, and not really shown up for us how we wanted, but NONE of those things are our biggest obstacle! The lessons we learned from those hurtful experiences are what hold us back.
The hard part (and this is where you get massive value form coaching and what brings the results) is getting clear in the moment about what doesn’t serve you – learning to discern between our emotional response that comes from an old hurt and seeing what is truly possible for us in our life.
If you want to take off in your business, your relationships with partners, friends, and family, and begin to live the life you were meant to live.
Every woman has to find her sexual power, every woman longs to feel and revel in her sexual power, and most women don’t even know it is OK to say they want to find and feel their sexuality – and yet, so many women are so frustrated sexually. Part of stepping into your GODDESS energy is to un-learn much of what you were taught about your sexual energy and about sex – So many women have been taught things that don’t support their sexual energy blossoming to its FULLEST, MAGICAL POTENTIAL.
If you are ready to remove the roadblocks to creating great, magical, sacred sexuality in your life, you need to sign up for this program now.
Female Client: “I’m certainly craving intimacy . . .”
Me: “So many women just shut down! Women’s sex drive is a lot higher than men’s!”
Client: “And we’re taught that it’s the men who have a higher drive. That our job once married is to complain about how much our hubby wants it. So, when we want it lots and he’s asleep, there’s obviously something wrong with the woman. The world is so dumb.”
Me: “Patriarchy . . . a world run by the insecurity fueled male ego, instead of the wisdom of the divine female.”
Client: “Yeah…so why are so many women sitting idly by?”
Me: “One part is because you women have bought into the same story the men have been trying to enforce with patriarchal anger/shaming/disrespect/denial, you have forgotten/never been taught how to set BOUNDARIES, trust your intuition, and STAND IN YOUR POWER.
I am hearing this same story from sooooo many women. Most often women blame themselves in some way – feel unattractive, undesirable, feel like their desire is bad or wrong – meanwhile there is a sexual lioness inside dying to come out, craving sexual intimacy and also not willing to settle for empty sex, craving the emotional intimacy as well.